Random Thoughts

People are different; men and women are different. They interpret things they see or read differently, this is one of the reasons why some distant relationships don't work. 

Relationship between two people requires lots of hard work, compromises, time, commitment and lots of love to hold them together, but it is very fragile, if any party walks away, it's done. 

Before people start a relationship, they do lots of work to get to know the other person, but some stop getting to know their partners when they are in the relationship. This is so sad. They assume, they expect, they fall a part and start it all again with the new partner. 

We can't help to expect something from our partners, it makes us feel we are cared for and loved without telling or asking for it. It is true that nobody could read our mind, but it is also true that our partners know something about us in certain condition, they know what we want and what we need. It isn't too much to ask for.

For some other things, we expect but we don't get it. We should talk, discuss in whatever convenient way to see if some things could be done to fix the problems we are having. If we can, the relationship will be healthy. If we cannot, think about it again if it's worth to fight over it or if it really matters to anyone in the relationship, ask ourselves, "will I be able to live with it for another 30 years or  40 years from now?". Make the answer clear and decide what steps we should take next. 

Sometimes, after talking, we find solutions, it is still the same or even gets worse. If it is so, stop and ask yourself the above question. 

I used to dream to be a princess where the other person would treat me like I'm the only woman alive, but now not anymore. Relationship is all about two people, we both work towards the same goal, both should sacrifice, work together, respect one another, love each other and never stop getting to know the person sitting next to you because we change every day. 

'Not every one of us could afford to be romantic' but each of us tries. Before a man goes on a date with the girl of his dream, he asks his friends what should he wear, how should he behave, where to, and what to give her etc. A woman is the same, she asks people what should she wear, which shoes should she put on,.. As time goes, no matter how many anniversaries you are having or will have, never ever stop trying to impress your partner, never stop trying to be romantic and sweet, it's this person that have been with you through these years and they deserve it. 

These are my random thoughts, take it or leave it. 

Bye!

xoxo